And – argh, antis ruin everything. They have stolen the word problematic. What they generally mean by calling a relationship problematic is that no one should be allowed to write about it or read about it, and definitely no one should be allowed to enjoy doing either of those things. What I mean by it is that this dynamic – built on gaslighting and dehumanization – is worth reading and writing about, but I am 100% not here for the romantic overtones, because yikes, no, dead dove, do not eat. And the book wanted me to eat, just a few bites, and nope.
This is such a great explanation of that infuriating thing!!
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This is such a great explanation of that infuriating thing!!